Why Saying “It’s Easy” is Dangerous (and, to be frank, stupid)

For some reason, I had this grandiose idea that it would be easy this time.


February of this year, I made a pledge to myself (and to whoever was listening on the internet) that I would FINALLY go vegan. It is something I have wanted to do since the year I went vegetarian, but cheese was at the foundation of my food pyramid and ice cream the love of my life.


Over the years I began to research how to be vegan for ethical reasons and later finding that veganism often brings tremendous health benefits and weight loss. Though my reasons for veganism had undebatable ties to my own moral compass, what finally got me to make the change was a focus on myself and my own health.

Before I get into this, I need to clarify that my idea on body positivity is this: Love yourself always. It doesn’t matter if you’re 120lbs or half a ton, you and your body deserve and require love in their current state. However, I know that the adipose in my body is way above what is considered healthy. The strangest thing is, when I tell people I want to lose weight, I get a backlash from people saying things like “But you’re not even fat!” or  “Some people just have slower metabolisms. You’re fine!” or, my personal favorite “What about body positivity? I thought you loved your body.”

But, yo. Believe me. I know that these extra fat cells I carry are not making me ugly. In fact, there are times when I look at the squishy parts of me and think they’re downright cute (omg, my hips are the best). This does not mean that I don’t get self-conscious sometimes, but fat does not an ugly person make.


Additionally, no person is fat. People have fat. That’s where I am right now. I have fat I want to get rid of. And that’s okay!

The conversation around fat is so wonky because it is slathered in shame and misunderstanding. If I say I don’t want to change, I get raised eyebrows and muffled snickers. If I do say I want to change, I rarely get support because people are afraid that if they say “good for you!” I will be offended because they just admitted that I do have fat to lose.

The toughest thing to accept is that weight loss does more than just change your aesthetics. It lowers risk for disease, increases energy and drive, lowers risk of depression, lowers strain off joints, improves breathing, lowers strain on the heart, etc. Once I, personally, accepted these ideas, however, losing weight is not about hating myself. It’s about wanting to do what is best for myself because *gasp* I love myself.

The problem arises when the primary voices I hear from  people who want to “help” me lose weight have their noses up in the air.  It’s people telling me how easy it was for them to lose 10-20lbs. It’s people who just cut soda out of their diet and everything fell into place. It’s the people in advertisements and all over the internet that tell you how losing weight was easy.

Easy? *cough* hahaha hahaha haha. no.

If I have learned anything in my 24 years of living, it’s that almost nothing goes according to plans. If you’re lucky, there are bumps in the road.


But, if the road is long (which I knew this one has been and will continue to be), you’re going to run into worse things… Detours. Rain. Snow. Ice. Broken stoplights. Flat tires. Giant potholes. Traffic jams. People who drive by and give you the bird when you were politely following the laws. Cops who hide on the side of the highway when you are going 5mph over the speed limit and pull you over because they need to meet their quota. A janky GPS that leads you to the middle of a country road and then says “lost satellite reception.” Deer that run right into your path when you’re driving  in the night fog…you get the idea. Even if you know how to drive, things pop up. It’s amazing we can come out unscathed.

To the people who claim their journey was easy, good for you, I guess? Sometimes journeys are easy, and I understand that. But, honestly, my trip is not a walk in the park. It’s a hike through the mountains.


The millions of success stories that emphasize their ease make me believe that there is just one thing I am doing wrong and when I figure it out the clouds will part, an infinite/higher power will bestow their eternal grace on me, and all of my dreams will come true. Deus ex machina, right? But, news flash, most journeys are long, hard, and laced with failure, frustration, and transformation you didn’t necessarily ask for.

To be honest, being vegan is difficult. Being healthy is even MORE difficult. As healthy as cutting meat and dairy out of your diet is, there is still sugar and processed foods that are 100% vegan. When you cut out sugar and processed foods, there’s still the fact that you have to learn how to eat a variety of foods to keep healthy. For crying out loud, there are still vegan cheeses, chicken nuggets, ice creams, that will tempt the dickens out of you. It’s freaking difficult.

Not to mention the other frustrations that happen with veganism. Some of it I had semi-expected–people becoming offended by me messing challenging their ethics, not knowing what really is healthy and what is not, missing the dairy products I omitted…but I did not know how frustrating those frustrations would be.

I literally began documenting all of this for myself because I know that I learn best through writing. But, man, have I really ticked some people off. I receive private messages or see angry Facebook posts about veganism nearly every time I post a blog. That’s not even an exaggeration. Luckily I don’t get as many questions from friends and family because of the progressive area I live in. But I know as soon as I go home, someone will intentionally try to sneak some cheese or egg in something–that sounds outrageous, but it happened all the time with meat when I went vegetarian. And, honestly, I do miss cheese sometimes. My life is more difficult as a vegan. And, my life is crazy challenging trying to be a healthy vegan. Does that mean I want to stop?


Is being a healthy vegan easy? No. Is it practical? YES.

When you say, “Is it practical?” are you actually saying, “Is it easy?” Sometimes we say that eating healthy isn’t practical, or that it’s time-consuming and ridiculous. Honestly, it can be time-consuming. And I cannot lie, it does take time out of your day. But is it worth it? Absolutely.

Sometimes we feel like we are entitled to ease. But if you want something badly, whether it be fitness, a certain career, a 4.0 on your report card, a mastery of a skill, you have to work for it. When we are told that losing weight is easy, and our promised fix is broken, we all give up.  Progress is a lost dream, so we throw our fists to the sky, curse the earth, and go on with our lives more complacent and jaded than ever.


When people make false claims that something is easy, there is no way to move forward. They are not with you through the struggle. They’re up on that mountaintop promising false hopes. As soon as things don’t go as planned, we’ll become paralyzed and don’t know what to do.

What I’m trying to say is, we need to reevaluate how we talk about health. It is not all about aesthetics and it does not come easy. It’s about living a long, happy life–a happiness which you worked for. A happiness you fought for.

I am tired. I am sick of starting a fitness journey over and over and over again and getting frustrated that things didn’t go the way people told me they would. I am sick of people telling me that my problem is genetic and not just a result of a societal rut I am caught in–believing that when things get too tough, I should give up until someone comes up with a teleportation device that gets me from point A to point B without the work or research.

Veganism isn’t going to cure all the complications that have built up since my youth. It has, and hopefully will continue to help me learn more about what is making it so difficult to move forward. But, I will not give up on driving forward. Not this time.

This time, I will fight.

Food Myths: breakfast is the most important meal of the day

Breakfast. Whether the idea was sold to us by cereal companies, or it’s just part of an old tradition we haven’t yet kicked, it’s always been ambiguous what Mom and Dad meant by “most important meal.”


“Well, it’s so you can focus, of course,” said Grandma, serving up another stack of jacks.  “You’ve gotta eat, so you can be the best you can be today.”

But, let’s be honest, that food coma that pancakes and waffles put you in was not helping you concentrate.

Think about it. The foods that are marketed to us as “most important” are things like cereal, milk, eggs, bacon, juice, sausage, etc… Are Eggo Waffles actually part of a balanced breakfast? Hmm…maybe if they were marketing apples, I’d be more convinced.

But what about those people who tell you that if you start of your morning with wholesome foods, you’ll eat better later in the day?

To that, I might suggest lunch: a healthy way to start off your day right.

But wait, what about… weight loss?


If you’ve struggled with your weight at all, you’ve probably been warned about the dangers of breakfast. After all, if you skip that morning meal, you are without a doubt going to turn into a ravenous beast come afternoon–overindulging for the rest of the day. Cue Snicker’s commercial, starring you.
But, skipping breakfast, surprisingly, will not necessarily make you hungry by noon.  In a study conducted to compare the hunger levels between breakfast eaters and morning fasters at lunchtime, scientists found that hunger levels were similar, if not equal, in both groups.  In fact, those who skip breakfast typically consume less calories throughout the day.

Similarly, in a 2014 study, scientists observed 300 participants by splitting them into two groups: those who were told to eat breakfast, and those who were told to avoid it. At the end of their study, they found that those who ate breakfast lost weight at a nearly identical rate as those who waited to eat later in the day.

Now, is breakfast bad? Of course not. If you feel that breakfast is an important part of your morning, by all means, keep it in your routine. However, putting breakfast on a meal hierarchy is unnecessary. Perhaps even dangerous.

Forcing yourself to eat breakfast when it is not natural to you, puts unnecessary strain on your eating habits. If you are trying to lose weight, I’d assume it’s because you would also like to keep the weight off. How do you do that?

Create a new lifestyle. If you are a person who hates mornings, is sickened by routine, or you simply aren’t hungry in the morning, myths about breakfast could be just another thing that makes getting healthy seem impossible. But, good news! It isn’t.

It is most crucial to note, for breakfast eaters and non, that all meals are important. If you make sure the food you put in your body is good fuel, you should be able to run off of it at any time of day.

So, what should you include in these meals?

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    The bottom line is, it’s not about when you eat, it’s what you eat.

    The nutrients you consume should come primarily, if not exclusively, from plant foods. Wondering how to get proper nutrients with just plants? Check out some of my other blogs:
    Where the Heck Do Vegans Find Protein?

    Where the Heck Do Vegans Find Calcium?

For more about breakfast, check out these sources: The Great Breakfast Myth|British Journal of Nutrition|Myths Surround Breakfast and Weight


We’ve all heard that carbs are bad for us at sometime or another. But are they really?

Quite the contrary. Think of carbs as your body’s fuel–without them, you  will not be able to complete daily tasks or exercise without running out of energy first. Not only are carbs not bad, they’re essential.

But, do too many carbs make you fat?

No. Well, not really. Very often, things we think of being high in carbs are high in other things that will make you fat. There are many different types of carbs, which is also likely something you’ve heard a million times. Complex vs. simple carbs. But what does that even mean? And who even cares if carbs won’t make us fat? If we can just avoid the other bad stuff why even waste the energy trying to figure out which carbs are the good ones?

Woah, there Bessy. Carbs are a good thing to note! Remember the whole fuel thing? Well, let’s take a look at where to find the good fuel. That way, you can stay energized throughout the day. You won’t be wasting energy finding good carbs–you’ll be creating it!



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Kale, spinach, romaine lettuce, collards, swiss chard, cabbage…

Cruciferous Vegetables

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Cauliflower, broccoli, brussel sprouts, turnips, radishes, watercress, kohlrabi, rutabaga, mustard greens…


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Strawberries, raspberries, cranberries, blueberries, lingonberries, currants, honeysuckle, gooseberries, cloudberries…

EAT THESE! But, in moderation.

Starchy Veggies

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Potatoes, yams, squashes, peas, pumpkin, parsnips, zucchini, plantains…

Sweeter Fruits

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Grapes, pineapple, dates, figs, oranges, tomato, grapefruit, jackfruit, papayas, mangos, peaches, plums, avocado…

Technically, bananas are berries. I don’t really which category to put them in.

Whole Grains

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Whole wheat flour, bulgar (cracked wheat), whole oats/ oatmeal, popcorn, quinoa, sorghum, buckwheat, millet, whole rye, whole grain corn/corn meal, brown rice, whole grain barley, whole farrow


White bread, white rice, white pasta, etc.


Soda, juice, and other sugary drinks

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Sugary snacks and desserts


Looking for more information about carbs? Check out these sources:

Why Are Carbs Important? | The Big Fat Debate About Carbohydrates | the CARMEN study

“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).


Sometimes we can do everything within our own power to succeed, and we will still fail.

That’s what happened in the month of March. And, well, most of April too. I started out my vegan journey strong, feeling small gains each and every day. But then, sciatica happened.

Sciatica is defined as, “Pain affecting the back, hip, and outer side of the leg, caused by compression of a spinal nerve root in the lower back, often owing to degeneration of an intervertebral disk.”


So, here’s where sciatica starts: the lower back.


And here’s where sciatica pain may travel: all the way down to the foot.

For me, it was down to my ankle.

I am not one to experience large amounts of physical pain, so when it happened, I was freaking annoyed. Empathy runs sparse in me when it comes to physical pain, so it was difficult for me to take my own pain seriously. But, let me tell you, this pain. Guys. This PAIN. It felt like my leg was splitting in half. Worse? I felt like my goals were also being split in half.

Here I was, being all health conscious and trying to take care of my body and it was screaming at me to stop whenever I moved.

It seemed like I tried everything. Relaxing. Exercising. Massage. Going to the chiropractor. Stretching. Applying ice. Applying heat. Sleeping. Doing my writing laying down. Doing my writing standing up. Ibuprofen. Tylenol. Nothing seemed to work.

Not only was it difficult to do my regular exercise, but also to do normal things like cooking or taking a shower. When I would go out at all, even to buy groceries, my pain would get so intense that I would sit down in the middle of an aisle and stretch until it was bearable to walk. It must have been pretty hysterical to watch!

Despite being in horrible pain, I would continue to try to do exercises and push myself because I wanted to get a particular result. At the very least, I wanted to move forward. But sometimes, moving forward means taking a step back and going to the basics. If I don’t, I will only feel defeated.

And I did. With that feeling of defeat comes slip ups in other areas of life.

I have been terrify to admit it, but I let my eating habits slip too. I began eating high amounts of sugar–sometimes even splurging on a non-dairy ice-cream cone or cookie.

I’ve felt so ashamed. So, instead of blogging, I’ve been in hiding hoping that no one will find out that I fell off track so freaking early.

How ridiculous! Right? I should have just been honest.

I should have blogged about what was going on. I should have have

Anyways, I am happy to say that I have been pain-free for one week (knock on wood). What finally did it for me was practicing yoga and taking turmeric pills. I will cover both of these in later blogs. For now, let’s just say, I’m ready to be active again!

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Buns Shares the Benefits of Yoga

Aww. Isn’t that a precious little bunny? Well, Buns here wants to show you some amazing benefits of yoga.

Mobility and Flexibility

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This is probably the no-brainer. When people think of yoga, they think of doing challenging, if not seemingly impossible, stretching. But why is it important to be flexible? Aside from doing some super awesome poses you can show off to your friends, flexibility helps with mobility in our day-to-day life. You’re less likely to get injured, and more likely to move. And moving–well, that’s just good stuff.

Better Balance

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There’s nothing like being accident prone because you can’t find good footing. Whether you suffer from poor balance because of an inner ear problem, or you are just plain uncoordinated, yoga can help keep your feet on the earth.


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While yoga is great for your body, it’s also great for your mind. Not only do practicers of yoga see improvements in reaction time, memory, and the ability to recall information, many see an increase in their overall happiness and quality of life. Doing yoga has even been known to increase serotonin levels and improve the lives of those struggling with depression.


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Want to find a way to strengthen your body with nothing more than your body? Look no further than yoga. When you do yoga poses, you are using your own body as resistance, creating lean muscle. Not only does that muscle look good, it makes your life a heck of a lot easier.

Better Posture

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There is not a more natural way to align your spine than yoga. Not only are the poses geared to straighten your spine, you are also strengthening multiple core muscle groups that keep you upright. Even more: you’re concentrating on breathing. And, to have a great, full breath, you must first have good posture so your lungs have space to expand.

Improved Breathing

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Take a breath of fresh air. Literally. While much of yoga focuses on the rhythm of your breathing, bringing attention and focus to your breath, it also opens up your body. This expansion helps your lungs can expand to their full capacity. AND healthy breathing makes for more oxygen. And more oxygen means more ENERGY!

Reduce Pain

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While yoga is able to help with normal pains and aches, it has also been reported by researchers that yoga can help with chronic pain as well. Some examples include, but are not limited to, osteoarthritis, fibromyalgia, and carpal tunnel.

Reduce Stress

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Hippyish as it may sound, yoga’s focus on present moment practiced regularly can significantly reduce stress levels. Additionally, a focus on breathing opens up the body–and a more open body is a more adaptable body.


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Better posture, a stronger mind, and less stress? Not mention that body that will be able to do empowering poses. How could you not be a little happier with yourself? Additionally, you will gain a consciousness of your physical body, allowing you to be more aware of what you are capable of.

And trust me–you’re capable of doing amazing things.

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“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).

No, being vegan is not all or nothing.

Contrary to popular belief, it is not all or nothing with veganism. Heck, it is not even all or nothing with vegetarianism. The following is a list of lifestyles which restrict the consumption of animals from the most lax to the most restrictive.



They abstain from eating meat…mostly. Sometimes meat whispers sweet nothings to them which they cannot resist.

It’s not all that simple, actually. Though a person might be a flexitarian because they cannot resist the taste of meat, others may live in an area where vegetarian products are difficult to get ahold of. They might also choose to eat meat as courtesy when a guest at someone’s house or when eating out with friends. Additionally, a person may eat meat to ensure they are getting vitamins such as iron and omega-3’s without paying too much attention to nutrition.

Pesco Pollo Vegetarians-


This is someone who stopped eating cows and pigs, but will still eat chicken and fish. Meat still beckons them, but only if it’s not red.

Perhaps this person finds more value the lives of cows and pigs than the lives of fish and chicken. Perhaps not. They may also be abstaining from red meat for health reasons. Or, like a flexitarian, find it more convenient to keep some meat in their diets.

Pescatarians –


This type of vegetarian says bye-bye to land animals, but still hangs on to the metaphorical fishing pole. That is, the only meat they’ll eat is fish.

Fish are definitely lowest in calories when it comes to meat, so a person may be ridding other meats for health. And, similar to the other types of meat-restricting types of lifestyles above, pescatarians may eat fish because it is more convenient to continue to include.

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So, now we’ve said goodbye to meat, but not animal products. They can still have their milk and eggs, maybe jell-o, but no flesh will be on their plates.

Likely, a person who is lacto-ovo does not see eggs and dairy as inhumane as the animal is able to live. And of course, convenience is always a factor. And taste. Don’t forget about taste.

Lacto Vegetarian-


No more eggs. No more meat. But they just couldn’t say goodbye to milk or cheese or butter just yet.

They may not see dairy as inhumane, may not be in an area where vegan cheese is available, or seriously don’t know how to give up their favorite dairy products. Nevertheless, this person’s still got milk, but definitely not the whole cow.

Junk Food Vegan-


No more animal products for these lads and lassies. But wait…there’s vegan junk food? LOTS of vegan junk food!

Often vegan for ethics, the junk food vegan still indulges in processed foods and sugars. They are likely to eat frozen foods that are similar to the foods they were eating before going vegan. So, instead of basing their diets on plants, they eat the vegan alternatives to things like pizza, faux meat, ice cream, etc.

Whole Food/Plant Based Vegan-

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Changing their diet all together are plant based vegans. They cut out processed foods and replace them with fruits, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, legumes, and seeds.

This type of vegan is probably experimental with cooking and loves discovering new meal alternatives. They may still eat pizza, but it’s not going to be premade. Everything this person will consume will be made primarily out of plants that have not been touched by factories.

Raw Vegan-

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The purest of the pure. The most natural of the natural. Vegan for predominately nutritional reasons, raw vegans avoid all animal by-products as well as anything cooked above 115 degrees.

The theory is that anything cooked above these temperatures has lost many of its nutrients. Needless to say, they also cut out anything processed and refined.

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Much like the name implies, Raw Till 4 vegans eat a raw diet up until 4:00pm.

Because many people enjoy warm meals, Raw Till 4 was created so persons could enjoy cooked food, but remain primarily raw. Very likely, these vegans would have fruit or a smoothie in the morning for breakfast. In the afternoon, they might have something like a salad. And in the evening? A nice cooked meal–likely with plant-based foods.

High Carb Low Fat-

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This may be shocking, but high carb, low fat vegans eat primarily carbs (from fruits and vegetables) while limiting their fat intake.

This lifestyle boasts it’s high caloric intake, claiming you can eat as much as you want while remaining lean. Many have critiqued this theory–but most people on using high carb, low fat lifestyles are aiming to be lean.



That’s right. A lifestyle composed of primarily fruits.

It’s not as extreme as it sounds. Fruitarians’ goal is to not harm any plants in the process of harvesting their food. So, what qualifies as fruit is not necessarily what you might think of initially. Cucumbers, squashes, nuts, seeds, beans, legumes may also qualify for consumption in this diet. Though, some people may be more extreme than others–refusing to eat anything that has not already fallen off the tree naturally.

“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).

AMAZING SUPERFOODS! Why Kale is Awesome and How to Use It

Want to get more superfoods in your diet, but know where to start?

Kale is a great superfood with lots of versatility. Keep reading and you will find why you’ll want to add kale to your diet ASAP and ways to do so.

Why it’s awesome:

Kale is PACKED with vitamins and minerals. It protects against heart disease with high levels of fibers and antioxidants and uses its magnesium and potassium content to help lower blood pressure. Additionally, kale helps brain function with amino acids which help you feel focused and happy. As if that wasn’t enough, kale can help a person loose weight. Why? It’s low in calories and fat, but it leaves you feeling full and satisfied. Likewise, it’s energy boosting, helping you stay active. Not enough? It also has fiber to aid in digestion. What the what?

And I’m only scratching the surface here, people.
Kale is also high in iron, Vitamin A, Vitamin K, Vitamin C, Calcium…
It also contains copper, Vitamin B6, Folate, Riboflavin, omega 3 fatty acids, omega 6 fatty acids…

The list goes on.

How to use it:

Add it to green smoothies
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If you don’t eat bitter greens, kale can take some getting used to. Put it in a green smoothie to mask the flavor with well-liked fruits. Here’s some rad smoothy combination ideas. First add kale, then:

[almond milk, banana, pineapple, peanut butter, honey]
[almond milk, banana, pear, almond butter]
[almond milk, strawberries, honey, banana, apple, pineapple]
[banana, lemon, pineapple, chia seeds]
[almond milk, berries, banana, rolled oats]
[almond milk, peaches, ginger, honey, banana]

Still nervous? Want more freedom with ingredients you already have in your kitchen? Check out my previous blog The Perfect Green Smoothie to get started.

Make kale chips 
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Into savory things? Bake kale in the oven with a little seasoning and olive oil to make kale chips! They’re tasty, and retain their nutritional value when you bake them.

Put it in a salad 
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This maybe goes without saying. However, if you ever see a salad labeled “detox,” It likely has kale in it. But not all salad is the same. Take a look at these kale salad ideas:

[dried cranberries, almonds, lemon juice, lemon zest, red wine vinegar]
[olive oil, lemon juice, garlic (toss in mixing bowl with hands until it reduces to half its size)]
[poppyseed dressing (either homemade, or bought vegan in stores), quinoa, almonds, blueberries, raspberries, avocados]
[black beans, corn, bell peppers, tomatoes, red onion, cilantro, jalapeño, (avocado, lime, cumin, & warm water for dressing)]

Add it to soup
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How can you go wrong with a good soup? And a good soup with something as good for you as kale? Check out these awesome soup recipes that call for kale:

In-A-Hurry Kale Chickpea Soup

Kale Barely Soup

Roasted Cauliflower and Kale Soup

Creamy French Lentils with Mushrooms

Quinoa and Vegetable Soup

Coconut Red Lentil Soup

Sauté it
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Cooking kale is a little strange. Though it’s a green, it doesn’t wilt when heated like spinach. But that just makes it all the more hearty. Here are some good kale combos to use while on the stove:

[butternut squash, red onion, garlic, cranberries, pecans, balsamic vinegar, olive oil]
[garlic, red pepper flakes, vegetable stock, olive oil]
[chickpeas, garlic, lemon juice, olive oil]
[garlic, mushrooms, vegetable broth, olive oil]
[butternut squash, garlic, onion, cranberries orange, orange zest, pecans
lemon zest, lemon juice, garlic, apples, olive oil]
[garlic, roasted red peppers, olives, balsamic vinegar, olive oil]

“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).

A Letter To Nature

Dear Nature,
I freaking love you! We go way back. Thank you, Disney, for igniting that flame with cute creatures and adventures through the woods. And Pocahontas. I’ve been painting with the colors of the wind since 1995.

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Our relationship has been more complicated than cinematic plots, however. It’s not as if I have ever thought of you negatively. How could you ever wrong me? Well, I suppose many may argue that you send spiders and natural disasters–but I think spiders are kind of cute. And, thunderstorms are my favorite!


Your beauty is obvious and, frankly, I don’t remember ever being angry with you. Have I made it obvious that I love you? I don’t spend nearly enough time outdoors. You are so vast and nuanced. Majestic, yet constantly unfolding your minute detailing. Let’s reflect on just a few moments you have shared with me through the course of my own life.

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The ways I’ve hurt you have been out of naivety, I swear. Though, sometimes out of laziness. Possibly purposeful naivety? Which, wow, I’m a jerk for doing that. Admittedly, I lie to myself to make problems lose their effects. Things never really go away when we ignore them, but ignorance gives me my selfish bliss. Right?

Is there ever an excuse for neglect? I’ve always been the worst at keeping in contact. Just ask all the friends I’ve moved away from. No matter. Whatever I say now is just empty excuses.

I don’t want to talk to you about global warming.

Though I firmly believe your fever is not a conspiracy theory, there are things that our culture…and me… has a difficult enough time wrapping their minds around. Nature, you cannot blame humans for not knowing how to care for you. After all, it is in our nature to focus on that which affects us directly. How can we grasp a concept so etherial as global warming, when the problems staring us directly in the eye are problems we still continue to ignore?

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Mortandade de peixes na Lagoa Rodrigo de Freitas, zona sul do Rio de Janeiro. Peixes Rabalos e Savelhas no espelho ocupam o espelho dágua.
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Of course, I’m not even scratching the surface. It’s clear that the problem in our relationship is not you. I don’t know that I could name a flaw in you that has not been created by man. Do we even know that we are being destructive? Does cancer know that by gaining power, it kills the very thing which sustains its life?

If anything, our relationship is tainted with my pity. I believe that pity is the last thing you need–pity is powerless. You need action. Not violence, though. Any violence towards each other is only furthering the destruction of your body. You need cancer cells to transform to building blocks.

I have no idea where to begin. I fear talking about your problems because I know that some people will run from what I have to say when I mention the things that happen to you when we eat animals. I know this to be true, because people lose interest in what I have to say about veganism when it becomes anything more than a health choice. Perhaps they feel as if I am throwing them into the fire? I am not sure.

I’ll write back when I have answers. Though I hope becoming vegan is a decent start, it’s important that I’m honest about the reasons I am doing these things outside of myself. I promise to talk of you more often–both the good things you give and the things we are doing to damage those things. You don’t deserve anything less.

Your very sorry friend,

Dear Body

Dear Body,
You’ve housed me before my neurons were conscious of what housing was. You’ve given and give me everything. Without you, I could not dance. I could not play piano, speak, sing. I couldn’t breath. I couldn’t think. I couldn’t live.

You are my everything, body. You’ve carried me through this life with impeccable stride. And with all I’ve put you through, I can’t believe that you still continue to provide for me with such resilience.

I used to be angry that you were mine. After all, I did not choose to be in a body with slow metabolism and zero coordination.

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In revenge–or, out of ignorance–I used you fill you with garbage, and you would use that garbage to build me. You are an amazing architect. No matter what I thought at the time, I was beautiful. It baffles that you built a temple almost entirely out of processed sugar, meats, and dairy. How did I function?

You also built a beautiful mind, though that mind was often poisoned with depression and anxiety. You helped me in my pursuit of knowledge. You guided me as I transformed into musician, writer and scholar.


But you were patient with me through the years when ignorance made you suffer. And you showed me that even after my ignorant mistakes, I could still transform into quite the wise young woman.

It’s taken so long to accept you so.

Remember when I disliked you so much that I punished you with starvation? You were never beautiful enough for society. And, being a tough critic of myself, you were definitely never beautiful for me. So, I thought getting back at you was to just…keep you from growing.

I made you weak, though you spent all your strength trying to give me the best life possible. I refused food, even when you ordered my stomach to growl. I grew dizzy and couldn’t concentrate when people talked to me. Hair came out in handfuls as I ran my fingers through my hair. But I became proud of myself when you shook with hunger, for hunger was a feeling that only the strong willed could achieve. And that hunger meant I was losing bits of you I didn’t want.

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I am sorry to have brought you to remember such a bad time. None of it was your fault. You have always done your best, though it took me years to realize that your best did not mean I could eat whatever I wanted and remain thin. You’ve never been thin. I don’t know that you ever will be. But I hope you are happy with who you are despite my constant nagging at you to metamorphize into a perfect butterfly when I never accepted you as a precious caterpillar.

My darling body, I’ve fallen in love with you. It took reworking my horrible relationship with food to see how much you’ve done for me. When I started treating you better, you reminded that happiness is not about superficial things like beauty. It’s about giving love and receiving it. It’s about treating others with compassion and understanding. That includes you, body. That means giving you gratitude for all you’ve done when I treated you like absolute garbage.


To repay you, I’ve started with this blog. I hope you’ve enjoyed the journey so far.
I love you more than words can describe. Let’s see what we can accomplish together, eh?

You’re ever-grateful friend,

P.S. You’re looking hot these days.

Raw Journey Photos

Day 1–>Today (1 month)

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“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).

A Letter To Food

Dear food,
Consider this letter my apology for all the crap we’ve been through. But you have to admit, it’s not all my fault. You’ve put me through some of the most difficult times I could ever imagine.

Remember when we first started off? I was into homemade bread and cinnamon rolls at Papa and Grandma’s house. We celebrated together, and you brought me up when I was down. Parties brought cake and ice-cream. Being a big girl at the doctor’s office brought lollypops. Hot days, popsicles. Cold days, hot chocolate. You brought me feasts on Thanksgiving and Christmas and buckets of candy on Halloween and 4th of July. I was never without your rewards. I know you treated other children well, but I felt like you thought I was extra special.


Perhaps you noticed I was taking advantage of you. But you have to admit, you were absolutely delectable. And how could I turn you down?

But, food, there was something you did to me that made me very very upset. You hogged me all to yourself. I lost friends because of our relationship–people could see that you were not doing treating me horribly. Or, rather, I was abusing you. But how could I resist you? It didn’t matter what you wore, I wanted you…even when it wasn’t appropriate.

As a result I began to wear you even when you weren’t around. The other kids didn’t like our extra special relationship. People loved hating me, and I began to hate loving you.


I couldn’t stop you though. I needed you to survive, after all. So I kept in contact, trying to loosen your grasp, only to feel you grip me tighter.

Consumed ate consumer. My life was yours to devour with every bite I took. I was out of control–even I tried to literally purge you from my life. There was no getting around it. I still needed you, but if I had the choice of never eating again, I would have taken it in a heartbeat.


Remember how the kids used to throw you at me in the cafeteria to see how much I could eat? You made me a circus show. I couldn’t stop, though their laughter burned my eardrums.

I wasn’t as good at ignoring you in elementary. Though you weren’t as delicious in your diet-food form, I still wanted to consume you more. Restricting myself from you was never enough. You always managed to call me back to you.


Highschool was different. I was finally able to omit you from my life enough to gain the respect of others. I was crabby without you, but I was not oppressed by the ridicule of others. Though…I never quite managed to escape my own ridicule of self–and my hatred of you.

But, my dear friend, I am learning to love you. Ever since giving up meat, I’ve been forced to discover you in new ways. I’ve seen parts of you I never knew existed.

Until recently, I thought you were trying to make me love you so you could have me all to yourself. But that’s not what you want at all, is it?

I wonder if we’ve both grown up a little. I’m learning to love you in new ways, and you are revealing how nuanced you truly are. You still beckon me, but dressed in new colors. Of course, you’ve always existed in shades of green, blue, red, and yellow–but I was always so comfortable seeing you in golden brown.

On second thought, you’re likely not more grown up. You’ve always been grown up. You were just through with being abused. I am so genuinely sorry for doing so to you. As we rekindle our friendship, I see that learning to love you means learning to love myself. It’s taking you in abundantly within all your variety–so I may live abundantly.

Thank you so much for being there for me, through the neglect, through the overindulgence, through every sad and happy bite,

Your very grateful friend,

“But It Tastes So Good” is the number one excuse I get from meat-eaters on why they do not want to switch to a vegetarian/vegan diet. I am not out there to make everyone vegan. I do, however, want to share what food does to your body and to the world around you. Let me show you that being good to yourself and to the earth can taste just as good, or better, than what you are already doing (both literally and figuratively).